This is a very easy thing to do which usually required no tools at all.
Step one: Remove the black shielding under the drivers side of the dash.
Step two: Look underneath the dash on the drivers side and locate the fuse block.
Step Three: Locate relay # 94 or 173 (depending on year of car)
Step Four: remove relay and you are done.
Here are some instructions I Found on Venom Motorsports page. Check out there website they have some cool vw Stuff VENOM MOTORSPORTS